E-books
Wave Parenting E-books
Ready-to-use phrases for your child's defiance — matched to their age. Each one comes in an Essentials Edition and a Complete Edition.
“Because I Want To!” Defiance in Preschoolers and Early Schoolers
from $27.00
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“You Just Don’t Get It!” Tween Defiance and the Start of Puberty
from $27.00
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How to Talk to Your Child Through the Defiant Years
from $37.00
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The 3-Step Method
Three steps instead of yelling
The same approach works with a toddler and a teen — only the words change. The e-books give you those words, ready to use.
Pause
Your calm comes first. You stop, take a breath, and move closer — instead of shouting from the other room.
Connect
You name what you see and what your child is feeling. A child in big emotions needs connection first, and only then the message.
Cooperate
You briefly say what happens next: a limit, a choice, or a solution you find together. No lectures, no threats.
FAQ
How do I get my e-book?
Right after your order is paid, you'll find a “Download e-book (PDF)” button in your confirmation email. Save the file to your phone, tablet, or computer.
What's the difference between the Essentials Edition and the Complete Edition?
The Complete Edition includes everything in the Essentials Edition, plus extra chapters, more conversation scripts, and more worksheets. You'll find exactly what's inside each edition above.
Will this work for my child?
Every child is different, and no guide can promise results. The e-book gives you ready-to-use phrases and a way of responding that you can adapt to your own situation. It works best when you use it consistently — that's why there's a 4-Week Plan inside.
Is this psychological advice?
No. Our guides are educational and are not a substitute for professional help. Inside you'll find a chapter on when it's worth reaching out for support, plus where to get support in the US.
I have kids of different ages. Which e-book should I choose?
Choose “How to Talk to Your Child Through the Defiant Years” — it covers every stage from 1.5 to 17 years old.
Can I read it on my phone?
Yes. It's a PDF file you can open on any phone, tablet, or computer.